Parenting in Holland

Moms: Don't give up the sexual ghost...

Because, one of the greatest gifts we can give to our children is a STRONG co-parent relationship. And, ironically, one of the biggest challenges to marriage, is the FRUIT of that love: CHILDREN!

Lust, Love, Little ones.... It has been said that Mother Nature is so conniving, confusing us women with a smokescreen of passion and poetry, to make us believe that having children with our beloved is the ultimate expression of our lifelong commitment. Until that first baby comes into your life, we forge ahead with our reproductivity like a divine goddess, certain that fulfilling your bioligical imperative can only enhance your romance. And, then – once you have been, well, “productive” – a woman’s energy, attention and affection changes.

The Distractions... Chasing after our children, kids in our beds, work at home, TV, newspapers, i-pads, computers, dreaded domestic duties, socialising and are just a few of the distractions in our daily lives. These innocent activities are often what keeps us out of the bedroom. And to think, we got to where we are now from those desperate passionate moments, in the act of re-production. And, now that we’ve been, well, “productive”, the passion has evaporated.

At a 2 hour seminar later this month (June 20), Passion Coach, Anitha Schrijver, will discuss the importance of intimacy, why we don’t have (more) sex (what happened??), look into men and women’s perceptions, touch on sexual myths, what does s/he want, how to bring out the babe in you (after you’ve had your babes) – in an honest and amusing once-off seminar. The seminar will come with some very exciting homework, discounts at hotels and a new lust for life and love.

Hundreds of studies have documented the health benefits of an active sex life for adults – but there are so many other considerations, too. First of all, we believe a woman who is desired by her mate is prettier, calmer and more confident. Second, a woman who has a great sex-life with her mate stands a better chance of staying with that particular man. Third, and most important, a woman who thinks she is sexy and desirable has a more youthful and vital self-image. In other words, if you think you’re irresistible and have the sex life to prove it, you’re in a position to draw more stamina and endurance from your sex life than a woman who has given up the sexual ghost.

So, how do we bring it back? Moms, this “Parent Education” event is an excellent investment in yourself, your relationship and your family. Register today!

Date: Monday, June 20, 19:30

Cost: €35 per mom.

Venue: van Hogenhoucklaan 89, Den Haag (behind Bronovo Hospital) free parking, bus 22